Pillow talkAlthough the pleasures of sex are well known, what is less emphasized are the pleasures of talking about sex: what feels nice, what we like to daydream about, what we long for, where our fantasies have come from. There is scarcely anything more interesting. Yet too often, we find ourselves not having as many good conversations about sex as we might. Maybe we dont know where to start, or we think we should know it all by now. Perhaps some aspects of